How to leave messages for your family on future dates
Imagine your granddaughter opening a letter from you on her wedding day, or your son receiving a few words of encouragement on his 50th birthday. You can write those messages today and have them arrive on the right day — even years from now.
Messages people treasure
- Birthdays: a letter for a grandchild's 18th or 21st birthday.
- Weddings and new babies: your wishes and advice for a new chapter.
- Anniversaries: a note to your partner each year.
- After you have passed: a goodbye, a thank-you, or something you always meant to say.
How to write a message that lasts
- Write as you would speak. Use their name and your own pet names.
- Share one memory you have of them, then one hope you have for them.
- Keep it short. A few heartfelt paragraphs mean more than many pages.
- Avoid things that may change, such as money amounts or addresses.
How to schedule it on Memoir Hive
- Sign in and open Future Activity, then Scheduled messages.
- Choose email, text message, or both, and enter who it is for.
- Write your message.
- Pick a date and time, or choose to send it after your death is confirmed.
- Save it. You can come back to edit or remove it before it is sent.
Future Activity costs US$100 per 10 future years, up to 50 years — a one-time payment. See pricing for details.
Pair your messages with your life story
A message means even more alongside the story of your life. If you have not started yet, our guide on how to write your memoir shows you where to begin.
Questions people ask
Can I send a message to my family after I die?
Yes. With Memoir Hive's Future Activity you can write a message now and choose to have it sent after your death is confirmed, optionally a set number of days later.
Can I schedule a birthday message years ahead?
Yes. You choose the date and time a message is sent, so you can write a letter for a grandchild's 18th or 21st birthday today.
How are the messages delivered?
By email, by text message, or both. You enter the recipient's email address or phone number when you write the message.
How far ahead can I schedule?
Future Activity is bought in 10-year blocks, up to 50 years ahead.
How much does it cost?
US$100 per 10 future years. It is a one-time payment, not a subscription.
Can I change a message after writing it?
Yes. You can return to your scheduled messages to edit or remove one before it is sent.